My Book

This book will forever change the way you think about divorce.

I wrote this book on divorce mediation because after practicing divorce law for many years as an attorney, I know how destructive litigation — the quintessential adversarial approach to divorce — can be.

Reconcilable Differences is about more than divorce. It's a guide to divorce mediation and the stories of how my clients chose a non-adversarial path to resolve their divorces successfully with courage and resourcefulness.

Through real stories of real couples navigating divorce, you'll learn how divorce mediation can save you time, money and stress. The couples you will meet throughout this divorce mediation book are people who came into divorce mediation angry, scared and ready to fight.

They are also people who took the profoundly important first step and agreed that their divorce was a problem to be solved mutually as partners rather than adversaries. They agreed, sometimes only tentatively at first, that they had to be, and could be, partners for their own good and the good of their children.